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The Pick-Me-Up

The Pick-Me-Up

By Leo Racicot

I’m sitting here wondering if the charming American custom of the afternoon pick-me-up still exists. I asked around and got a lot of blank stares. It’s safe to say the afternoon pick-me-up is cousin to the British tea time tradition, that hour of the day when the body and the mind begin to slump and a restorative timeout is sought. The afternoon pick-me-up isn’t quite the same. The pick-me-up as I knew it is less formal than the ceremonial UK teatime. American pick-me-ups have a looser dynamic, an almost spur-of-the-moment need to sit down amid the day’s activities and stop for a breather. Teatime in England appears to be a necessity; the British can’t live without their tea. In UK-produced movies, television series and books, no matter what dreadful occurrence has beset the principals, the kettle is always put on the burner in the belief that a good, strong pot of tea will see the tragedy through.

The pick-me-up is less formal than the ceremonial UK.  At our grandmother’s and aunt’s place, after a day’s long slog, there was always, around 3 p.m., a practice of sitting down at table with a cup of coffee and a plate of sweets. This is the pick-me-up formula – hot coffee to be enjoyed (and enjoyed slowly, leisurely) along with a sweet, a cookie, a piece of candy, a small dish of ice cream. The respite is less about food and drink as it is about taking a period of quiet time for oneself and one’s company to simply “be”. Amicable chat might be a part of the break but usually, everyone gets quiet, sits in the quiet, admiring the sun coming through the window, the silence in the hallway. A contemplative pause washes over the room and its occupants who might, in fact, be thinking about absolutely nothing as they nosh. Think of the pick-me-up as a middle of the day culinary nap.

When I was living in Las Vegas, Helen and Cookie observed this habit. I came to look forward to it as the midday heat of the desert descended and the curtains were drawn. Coffee was made; it need not be percolated; sometimes all Helen had in the house was instant Maxwell. She’d place a box of assorted cookies before us and off we three would disappear in reverie. I thought of it as moments of “Enough is enough”, enough of chores, enough of errands, enough of everything, to give oneself permission to just sit.

At the Shea’s home, for the nine years I was working there, Ms. Shea held to this routine. Daily, no matter what else was going on, at 3 pm on the dot, she’d make her way from her second-floor rooms to the downstairs kitchen where she’d bid me make herself, Richard and me a hot cup of coffee and bring out of the cupboard a confection or two. Often these pauses would consist of the three of us. If Richard was out, say, at an appointment, it would be his mother and me. Because she didn’t always join in on the breaks, Richard and I would be by ourselves. I treasured these alone times with him, especially when he’d free himself of his tantrums, his nerves, his fretting. The pause had the power to calm him; the pick-me-up, a pocket of peace in a mostly chaotic place.

There was a tree in the backyard, a wise, old oak. It was so sturdy it had a steadying influence, a calming effect. Richard’s and my eyes were especially drawn to it in the Fall of the year when it became ablaze with Autumn light, Its quiet reds, its silent yellows slumbering in the afternoon sun hypnotized us both as we nibbled noiselessly on our cookies, soundlessly sipped our coffee. There was no not liking him at these times together, not that I ever didn’t like him. I liked him from the moment I met him, liked him from the beginning of our nine years together. And he, thank the gods, liked me; I used my ability to speak in foreign accents to soothe him, quiet his furrowed brow when tantrums lurked behind it on the verge of explosion. He tuned in most keenly to my Irish accent, my singing of the old Irish folk songs he and I had both known as children, at different times in our lives. He always closed his eyes whenever I’d sing to him, his favorite being Farewell to Tarwathie which I’d learned listening to Judy Collins’ version on her Whales and Nightingales album. As a background to the song, the mournful moans of real Humpback whales added to the natural beauty of the song. I once, as a joke, mimicked for Richard the whale sounds and had him laughing and laughing. I laughed too.

It wasn’t popular in the house to say you liked Ms. Shea. She could be difficult. Her philosophy was that you had pitched your tent in her home and you would abide by her rules. For a tiny person, she had a giant temper — what Joe Perkins referred to as her “cow voice”. I watched many a strapping 6 foot and taller varsity football player quake and shake in absolute terror as this little knick-knack of a woman shook her crooked finger at them,  giving them the “What for”.  But I liked her. Not exempt from anyone else in that house from being chastised, I was nevertheless drawn to her sense of humor, her fascinating anecdotes about her life; her personal history among the movers and shakers of her time. She was impressed that I was able to discuss Spinoza and Schopenhauer with her at the table, knew who she was talking about when she told me she’d studied under Bertrand  Russell and Alfred North Whitehead. She especially liked that I called her Ms. Shea, not Mrs. Shea, like all the other guys did, liked the feminist sound of it, and once confessed to me that I reminded her of her own brother, a doctor, Uncle Doctor Sidney Druse whom she said I resembled both in my facial features and in my demeanor. We had some of the most interesting conversations I’ve ever had. I came to love looking into her eyes, eyes cloudy with time and the years. Those eyes had looked into the eyes of men like Alger Hiss, Franklin Roosevelt, Abe Fortas. Ms. Shea was a bit of living history. At Christmastime, Thanksgiving time, she’d leave a bundle of her copies of The New York Times Review of Books and The London Spectator outside the door of my room. Always, a thrill. Gifts at the holidays were always the same — a bottle of sherry and a box of those Ferrero Rocher chocolates, the chocolates wrapped in gold foil.

The funniest of the pick-me-up parties (though only funny in retrospect) was the time she got merry and festive (not very often) and decided for Hallowe’en, she’d have a little something extra as a surprise for Richard. She ordered a luscious, elaborately decorated cake for him from Cardullo’s Gourmet Shoppe in Harvard Square (wildly expensive), ice cream from Hurrell’s. Well, came the time for the kitchen shindig, I completely forgot it was Day Light Savings Time, and the time change. Ms. Shea told us she’d be down at 3, adding, “I might come to the party, I might not.”   So, when at the appointed time, she hadn’t arrived from upstairs, I assumed she wasn’t coming (she often didn’t join Richard at these soirees she herself had arranged). So — Richie and I dug in. No sooner had we swallowed our sumptuous cake, the last of the ice cream treat, than whom should appear in the kitchen doorway but Ms. Shea, dressed in a Halloween gown, peckered all over with little witches and pumpkins (the sort of wonderful dress she never ever wore). Her face was dolled up to the max — eye shadow, lipstick, the full magilla. Again, something she never did. She had a limelight smile on her face which, when she saw we were just finishing up, vanished. She looked crestfallen. Panicking, I explained the time change had thrown me, that I’d gotten confused and because she hadn’t shown up when she said she might, figured she wasn’t coming and that we had better start without her. I apologized profusely. Richard, wiping the last cake crumbs from his mouth with his Halloween napkin, slyly chuckled, “Late for her own party…”  Rather than murdering me and Richard both, Ms. Shea howled, louder than the loudest holiday goblin as she made her way back upstairs in the sad/comic afternoon. Saved!

Looking back from a distance of nearly 20 years, as hard a personality as Ms. Shea was, as hard as it often was, working with Richard, I can see now they picked me up with more than cups of coffee and treats. As my former co-worker in that house, James Stephen Lee, said to me a few years ago, “My, but weren’t we lucky to know them.”

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Afternoon pick-me-up

Leo (the author) and Mrs. Shea

Reading to Richard

from left: Leo (the author) and Richard

The study at Francis Street at a peaceful time

Seen & Heard: Vol. 21

Event: Lowell in World War II Walking Tour: On Saturday, Bob Forrant and I led 30 people around downtown Lowell, sharing stories about the city during World War II. The main theme was how war production temporarily rescued the remaining Lowell mills and boosted employment and wages for Lowell residents who had suffered through almost two decades of hard times. We also talked about organized labor, the military draft, how the city honored those who gave their lives in the military, and how the war was financed through “war bond” drives that united the community. 

Television: America’s Bookclub on C-Span. David Rubenstein interviews the historian Candice Millard who has written several best selling books, the best known of which may be Destiny of the Republic which is about the assassination of President James Garfield. She grew up in Ohio in a blue collar family. Both of her parents loved to read. She went to a small college in the midwest then worked at National Geographic where she worked for six years when she wrote her first book, River of Doubt, which is about Theodore Roosevelt’s post politics journey up an unknown in South America.

YouTube: Google I/O 2026 – Google I/O is Google’s annual developer conference which was held this year on May 19-20, 2026, in Mountain View, California. I watched the keynote address by the company’s CEO and several of its top executives. The purpose of the presentation I watched was to announce new things in artificial intelligence and Google products and systems. For a variety of reasons, I never found my way into the Apple universe and landed on Google as a comprehensive alternative. I use it for email, calendar, writing, entertainment (I watch YouTube more than anything else on TV) and my Pixel phone, watch and tablet. Perhaps the biggest announcement was a further shift by Google away from its traditional “search” function that would return a bunch of hyperlinks to websites in reply to your query with greater reliance on AI summaries. “AI mode” has been available in Google search for a while so it’s not completely new, but that functionality has been much expanded and made more dynamic in that you can ask follow up questions and almost engage in a dialog with the device. Other big announcements involved “coding” (using AI to write computer code) and “agentic AI” (having an agent automatically do things for you like order coffee or schedule an Uber based on some prompt embedded in your calendar, for instance). Finally, Google introduced an “intelligent eyewear” product, also known as smart glasses, which will compete with META which has the lead in this technology. 

Streaming: Late Night with Steven Colbert – I don’t watch much TV, certainly not any late night TV, and as much as I find the various hosts amusing, there is so much other content on YouTube that I find interesting that I don’t catch their clips there. However, I did watch a replay of the full final episode of The Late Show with Stephen Colbert. I found the program entertaining and enjoyed watching, especially the musical finale which featured Paul McCartney, Elvis Costello and Jon Batiste. McCartney was the one guest who sat next to Colbert’s desk and talked in the traditional TV talk show way. The former Beatle was coherent and entertaining but he looked and sounded old (he’s 83), but when he sang, I thought the years melted away. There were several “comedy cameos” where different celebrities seated in the audience interrupted then expressed displeasure that they were not the final guest. Jon Stewart had an appearance as did the scientist Neil deGrasse Tyson. And Colbert’s four late night colleagues, Jimmy Fallon, Jimmy Kimmel, Seth Myers and John Oliver, appeared as a group. The Colbert version of the Late Show has been around for 11 years which is a good run on TV, so if it had just been cancelled in normal times it would not have been such a cultural marker. But the wide perception is the show was cancelled by Paramount to earn favor from President Trump who had expressed annoyance at Colbert’s mockery of him. That context elevated the significance of this episode beyond the normal termination of a TV show. 

Obituary: Barney Frank – Former Congressman Barney Frank died on May 19, 2016, at age 86. Born and raised in Bayonne, New Jersey, Frank came to Massachusetts to attend Harvard and was in graduate school there when he was hired by Mayor Kevin White. In 1972, he was elected to the Massachusetts legislature and in 1980, when incumbent Congressman Robert Drinan, a Jesuit priest, had to relinquish his elected office due to a new policy from Pope John Paul II, Frank won that seat which he held until 2012 when he chose not to seek reelection. In 1987, he came out as gay, the first sitting member of Congress to do so publicly. In 2012, before his term ended, he married Jim Ready, making Frank the first member of Congress to have a spouse of the same sex. His most significant legislative achievement was the 2010 Dodd-Frank Act which tightened the rules on lenders in response to the meltdown of the housing market that led to the global financial crisis in 2007. Conservatives later argued that a main driver of the financial crash was risky loans that liberal politicians forced lenders to make to undeserving poor people. The reality is that lenders delighted in making those loans because the riskier the borrower, the higher the rate of interest the lender could charge, and none of the loans were held by the entities that made them – they cashed in their profits right as the loan was made – but were passed on to gullible investors who were left holding the bag when the bottom fell out.

When damaged people damage others by Marjorie Arons-barron

The entry below is being cross posted from Marjorie Arons-Barron’s own blog.

The Elements by prolific Irish writer John Boyne is an intense novel that takes you into the darkest places of human behavior and miraculously brings you into the light with a slender promise of hope. Broadly speaking, it is about depravity, crime, guilt, complicity, prostitution, pedophilia, rape, suicide, estrangement, betrayals, loss and reconciliation. And more.

The four sections of the book – water, earth, fire and air – designate four seemingly separate story lines, in each of which the principal character is at odds with the universe. Yet the book’s structure is intricately woven so that the characters are surprisingly intertwined. The behavior of individuals in each section has a profound and lasting impact on their own lives and produces ruinous results for others. Yet, at the end of the book, well…….I won’t spoil it for you.

Section One (water)  starts out in a small, beautiful island off the west coast of Ireland. It has 400 residents and a lot of livestock. The story is told in the first person, in this case, a woman taking refuge in a rented cottage and seeking anonymity, changing her name from Vanessa Carvin to Willow Hale. She has a dead daughter, Emma, and a husband (formerly an admired public figure) in jail. Her reputation – and his – have been irreparably damaged. What has been the damage to her remaining daughter, Rebecca, and how will that affect Rebecca’s future relationships?

The second part of the book (earth) starts in the same place with a teenage boy, Evan Keogh, who wants to be a painter but is pressured by his father to be a professional footballer (soccer pro to us Americans.) His first-person narrative is of his success on the pitch, paralleled by a dark downward spiral in the rest of his life, with stunning twists and turns.

And so it goes, from the second to the third to the fourth, with dark experiences and surprising revelations.

The reader meets women who remain loyal, even though victimized by unfaithful and treacherous men. Author Boyne also raises unsettling questions about women’s complicity through silence and by action.  We come to know men brutalized in their innocent boyhood by twisted women, getting revenge for something done to them when they were vulnerable girls.

Do the elements destroy everything, as some of the characters assert? Can we live harmoniously in the world, or is the universe against us? Some parts of this book will leave you shuddering. Some will have you wondering. Ultimately, The Elements will touch you deeply.

Toil, Repeat, Rehash

Toil, Repeat, Rehash – (PIP #107)

By Louise Peloquin

     Pop quizzes, tests and exams are punctuating student days as the school year comes to an end. This is a time to reflect upon how one can “learn well.”

The learning tips provided in the following editorial are not outdated. Furthermore, clear writing and correct spelling in any language have always been challenging for students young and old including for yours truly!

L’Etoile – January 23, 1926

IN ORDER TO LEARN WELL

     In the Figaro we find (1) the following excellent reflections. They are dedicated to studious youth and to teachers:

     “It is not at the age of 18 that good intellectual habits are formed; it is between 7 and 12. Fifty-year-olds have all had those excellent elementary school teachers who pursued their noble profession with so much passion that they managed to teach spelling which, of course, is not sufficient but is nonetheless indispensable and is a proof of intellectual solidity. Why, yes why do young people in 1925 not know how to spell? That is the anguishing question that I very respectfully ask the Minister of Public Education. Oh that he not create a commission to investigate the issue!

     We should make the effort to reflect that human beings do not know what they learn; that in order to learn it is necessary to toil, to repeat, to rehash. Yes, if you have not learned the rules by heart … if that child within you has not leapt with pride, after having navigated all of the pitfalls to succeed in producing that masterpiece which is a perfect dictation, you will never experience one of the greatest joys of learning.” (2)

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1. First presented as a “journal littéraire”, Le Figaro was named after “The Marriage of Figaro”, Pierre-Augustin de Beaumarchais’s five-act comedy written in 1778. It began as a single sheet printed on January 15, 1826 and became a daily in 1866. Its motto is a line from the play: “Without the freedom to criticize, there is no flattering praise.” Its content includes coverage of the arts, sciences, lifestyle, national and international news, economics and politics. Over 400,500 paper copies of Le Figaro are distributed daily, making it France’s second-largest newspaper after Le Monde. More than 245,100,000 readers pay it an online “visit” every day.
2. Translation by Louise Peloquin.